COMPLETE FEATURE LIST

Every feature built for your situation.

Five categories of tools, each designed around one goal: building an airtight record and maintaining your composure while you do it.

Documentation

The foundation of every custody case is what you recorded — and when. These tools make documentation fast, consistent, and court-ready from day one.

Incident Log

Free

The core feature. Log any custody-related event in under 60 seconds: text messages, phone calls, in-person exchanges, missed pickups, late drop-offs, overheard statements — anything relevant to your case.

Each entry captures: date and time (automatic), incident type, verbatim quote (what was actually said or written), your interpretation (separate field), risk level (1–5 scale), and optional notes.

Example: "Received." — logged within 90 seconds of exchange confirmation. Over 90 days, this becomes a pattern of compliance that speaks for itself.

New Incident
Text Message
"You'll never see those kids again."
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Verbatim Quotes — Separated from Interpretation

Free

Courts and attorneys distinguish between what was said and what you think it means. GreyRock enforces this separation by giving you two distinct fields for every entry.

The verbatim field captures exact words. The interpretation field captures context and meaning. When the PDF is generated, these appear in separate, clearly labeled sections — exactly how legal documentation is expected to read.

This structure also protects you: your emotional response to an incident does not contaminate the factual record.

"You're going to regret this."
Statement made during scheduled exchange in front of the children. Context suggests reference to ongoing legal proceedings.

Screenshot & Attachment Support

Free

Attach screenshots directly to any log entry. A text message screenshot attached to its corresponding log entry creates a stronger record than either alone.

All attachments are stored locally on your device and included in cloud backup (Pro). They are referenced in the PDF report with a page number for easy retrieval.

Attach Screenshot
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Photo Library or Camera
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Communication

Every text you send is part of your record. These tools help you send fewer reactive messages and more court-safe ones.

Hold Fire / Pause Mode

Free

Before you respond to any message that makes you angry, scared, or defensive — tap Hold Fire. A guided ten-minute countdown begins, walking you through the Grey Rock protocol.

The pause is enough. Research consistently shows that the first reactive impulse passes within minutes. Hold Fire gives you the structure to wait it out rather than relying on willpower alone.

Every Hold Fire session that ends without a reactive reply extends your Grey Rock streak. Every session you complete is logged as evidence of emotional regulation.

Hold Fire
9:32

Do not reply yet.

🔥 47-Day Streak

AI-Drafted Replies

Pro

When you need to respond, not just log — paste their message and choose a tone. The AI drafts a reply in seconds.

Three tones available:

  • Grey Rock: Minimal, factual, completely emotionally flat. Give nothing to escalate.
  • BIFF: Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm. Developed by Bill Eddy for high-conflict communication.
  • Boundaries: Clear, calm boundary-setting without emotional charge or threat.

You review and edit before sending anything. The draft is also automatically saved as a pending log entry.

AI Reply Draft
Grey Rock
BIFF
Boundaries
"I've noted your message. I'll be at the scheduled exchange on Saturday at 5:00 PM."

Reply Templates (15 Free / 35+ Pro)

Free

Pre-written templates for the most common high-conflict scenarios. Each template is short, factual, and legally safe. Written by family law practitioners.

  • "Received."
  • "I've noted your concern. I'll consult with my attorney."
  • "Per our custody agreement, the exchange is scheduled for [date] at [time]."
  • "Please communicate regarding the children only."

Pro unlocks 35+ additional templates including templates for specific scenarios: parental alienation responses, emergency situations, holiday scheduling disputes, and school communication conflicts.

Reply Templates
"Received."
"I'll be at the scheduled exchange."
"Please communicate about the children only."
+ 32 more (Pro)

Tracking

Patterns matter more than individual incidents. These tools build the behavioral record that courts find compelling.

Grey Rock Streak Tracking

Free

Your streak counts consecutive days of documented composure — days on which you logged interactions, used Hold Fire when needed, and did not send reactive messages.

In a modification hearing or GAL evaluation, a 90-day Grey Rock streak is a documented behavioral pattern. It is not anecdotal. It is a log with timestamps.

The streak is shown prominently on the home screen and included in all PDF reports. When the evaluator sees your streak alongside the incident log, the narrative writes itself.

47
Day Grey Rock Streak

Parenting Schedule Calendar

Pro

Enter your court-ordered parenting schedule once. GreyRock tracks every scheduled exchange and compares it against your logged actual exchanges.

Missed pickups, late drop-offs, and unauthorized schedule changes are automatically flagged. The compliance summary is included in every PDF report and is one of the most impactful sections for attorneys and judges reviewing the document.

Compliance Summary

Scheduled Exchanges24
Completed21
Missed by co-parent3
Your compliance rate100%

Goals Tracking

Free

Set personal accountability goals — logging frequency, Hold Fire usage, response-time targets — and track progress week over week. Goals are private and not included in the PDF report unless you choose to add them.

Goals
Log every interaction7/7 days
Hold Fire used3 times
Zero reactive replies

Reporting

Every data point you collect becomes part of a report your attorney can use tomorrow.

PDF Court Reports

Pro

Generate a fully formatted, attorney-ready PDF report for any date range — a single week, a month, or everything since your first entry.

The report includes a cover page, incident list with full detail, pattern analysis, compliance summary, and streak graph. It is formatted to read like a legal document — because it needs to be taken seriously as one.

Share directly from your phone via email, AirDrop, or any other method. The PDF is generated on-device and never transmitted to GreyRock servers.

Incident Documentation Report
GreyRock · Confidential · Attorney Review
Incident frequency: 4.2/week · Peak day: Monday · Primary type: Text Message (67%)

Pattern Analysis

Pro

Individual incidents matter. Patterns are what move cases. GreyRock's pattern analysis identifies frequency trends, peak days, escalation clusters, and behavioral changes over time.

The analysis section of the PDF is the section attorneys tell us they read first. It translates your raw log into a narrative any judge can understand in two minutes.

Pattern Findings

  • 4.2 incidents per week — above baseline
  • 67% of incidents occur on exchange days
  • Escalation cluster: 3 incidents within 24h on Feb 18
  • Risk score trending upward over 60-day period

Hearing Prep Mode

Pro

Before a hearing, open Hearing Prep. GreyRock surfaces the most significant incidents in your log — highest risk scores, most recent escalation cluster, most impactful individual entries — and helps you prepare a summary with your attorney.

You can also generate a hearing-specific PDF with only the incidents you choose to present, keeping the document focused and relevant.

Hearing Prep
April 22, 2025
3 auto-selected by risk score
Generate Hearing PDF

Security

Your documentation is sensitive. These features protect it from anyone who should not see it.

PIN Lock & Biometric Authentication

Free

Lock GreyRock behind a PIN or Face ID/Touch ID. Every time the app opens, authentication is required. There is no bypass.

If the wrong PIN is entered five times, the app locks for 30 minutes. This is not optional — the lockout is designed to prevent brute-force access on an unattended phone.

App Lock
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or use Face ID

Disguise Mode

Free

Rename GreyRock to anything you choose — "Calculator", "Notes", "Utilities" — so the app icon on your home screen is not identifiable. The name change appears on your home screen and in the app switcher.

This is not about hiding wrongdoing. It is about privacy. Your documentation is private. Your legal strategy is private. You are allowed to keep it that way.

Disguise Mode
Calculator
Your home screen will show "Calculator" — the app functions identically inside.

Encrypted Cloud Backup

Pro

Your data is backed up automatically with end-to-end encryption. Only you can decrypt it — not GreyRock, not the cloud provider. If you lose your phone, restore everything to a new device by signing in to your account.

Backup frequency is configurable. You can also trigger a manual backup at any time, which is recommended before court dates.

Backup Status

Last backupToday 3:14 AM
Entries backed up247
EncryptionAES-256

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